Creative forces collided today, as my host Daniel McCord introduced me to two people he’d recently been in contact with regarding their “Breakfast With Strangers: 50 Meals Across America” honeymoon tour throughout the United States: Matt Webber & Courtney Dillard. As they realized that sharing meals with strangers was a perfect way to bridge social gaps that so many of us experience, they decided to embark on a mission of sharing and caring across America from their cozy minivan. What a wonderful way to spend a honeymoon!! They’re even going to write a book about it!
Funny, as Daniel and Matt had previously been communicating with one another, they discovered that Matt, who lives in Portland, had been aware of my walk almost since the day I began. Julie Magers, a wonderful mutual friend, was on the receiving end of the telephone when, many days before my first mile, I called to see about getting Oregon Governor John Kitzhaber’s support– in the form of taking twenty minutes through Portland with me. Julie loved the idea; she put me in touch with the right people, and Kitzhaber ultimately did walk with me. Julie and I have been friends ever since. Julie linked me with a handful of her closest Facebook friends, and Matt was one of them.
It was a true pleasure sharing the first meal of the day with Matt & Courtney– both of them very fascinating people. They’re over three months into their five-month breakfast-sharing mission, and they too are now well aware of what nearly everyone who embarks on such an outward transcontinental social mission learns: originally-planned dates and deadlines do not allow nearly enough time to begin to get to know the people and places well. I myself learned this lesson before emerging from Oregon, but I didn’t actually expand my timeline until walking across the Golden Gate Bridge. Three years later, that original, self-imposed nine-month deadline lays flattened and nearly forgotten below the countless incredible experiences I’ve since soaked up across all the additional days & stays.