14 miles today brought me from Amelia Court House to Genito, where I met my older brother!
(Blog in progress– more photos and narratives to come…)
14 miles today brought me from Amelia Court House to Genito, where I met my older brother!
(Blog in progress– more photos and narratives to come…)
Blog in progress– more photos and narratives to come…
Connie Moss, wonderful local whom I’d met last Friday while walking into Blackstone, invited me to dinner tonight with her friends Dan & Callie, who live on an organic farm in Amelia County, my next stop en route to the commonwealth capital of Richmond. How could I refuse such a kind and right-up-my-organic-alley offer..?
Upon their many acres, Dan & Callie– a wonderfully kind couple– grow a great deal of their own food, much of which we ate tonight (oh-so delicious!!). Dan & Callie invited me to spend a couple of nights at their place upon reaching them on foot this Friday– a wonderful offer that I was more than happy to accept. My brother Matt’s 40th birthday is this Saturday, and they’ve invited him to come and spend the night out at the farm as well!
I look forward to writing more about them upon reaching Amelia County!
I LOVE the quiet rural roads!
Today’s dozen miles brings me out of Blackstone and to the edge of Nottoway County– halfway to Amelia Court House. I’m now considered to be in the town of Crewe, despite the fact that I never walked anywhere close to the center of Crewe.
Walking almost exclusively up these peaceful, charming country roads– my favorite of all roads, was a refreshening, elbow-widening experience.
Leroy Bradshaw scooped me up at the end of the day, after I’d reached the intersection of Hwy 614 & 613. He’ll return me to this very intersection (and the nearby yellow sign I tagged as a last-touched marker) later this week.
On the phone to Leroy’s 93-year-old Uncle Nick, after speaking to Silvia’s 99-year-old mother, Leroy & Silvia have inspired me to do a better job of keeping in contact with my elders. Last Monday evening, after 14 walking miles brought me into Kenbridge, VA, Leroy & Silvia Bradshaw scooped me up in Kenbridge and shuttled me immediately to Blackstone, VA, for the Monday night Rotary Club weekly meeting. After several active days here in Blackstone, Leroy returned me to Kenbridge last Friday to walk the dozen connecting miles from Kenbridge to their Blackstone, VA home on Friday. Tonight is night #7 with Leroy & Silvia, and tomorrow I plan to walk a few miles north, toward Amelia County.
Over the course of the week I’ve spent with them, I’ve been very inspired by their active involvement within the community. A dentist & hygienist who have taken their own, unorthodox, prevention-heavy approach to dentistry, the Bradshaws also make ample time to volunteer within the community: Leroy was busy volunteering in the kitchen at the concession stand this past week, and picking up trash on the side of the road this weekend. Silvia not only does a fabulous job with household responsibilities, she also loves cooking her delicious dishes for the world around her.
Leroy & Silvia were born a few years before my parents, and over the course of my days here, I’ve seen them do a fantastic job of staying in touch with their elders– including many who otherwise receive very little social contact. They’ve shown me that even if for only 5-10 minutes per call, keeping regularly in touch with our elders and extended family is very worthwhile and enriching.
Thank You, Leroy & Silvia, for many positive lifestyle improvements that you both are turning me on to…
Arriving bright & early this morning to join Blackstone Rotarians with their annual, Earth Day cleaning up of the road side trash!
Sweetheart student Amanda, whose school I’d spoken to earlier in the week, saw me walking the final few of yesterday’s dozen miles as she drove by. She parked far ahead of me, and ventured out to walk a few minutes with me. (I love it when they do that!)
“Do you ever get bored walking?” Amanda asked me.
“Stop right here,” I told her. “Do you hear the wind whittling its way through the branches above?”
I don’t remember every exact word I said to Amanda, but my basic message it that despite the many ongoing challenges, I actually love walking across America. I get to hear & feel the wind around me, the birds singing, the deer staring, the squirrels running and the turtles splashing.
Blacktop loneliness definitely has become a factor at times– including during my second month on the road, in northern Cali. I also felt ready for additional companionship after several hundred miles of rural west Texas; I believe this played a major role in adopting Rusty, in Goldthwaite (before finding him an ultra-loving home with Mr. & Mrs. Williams, of Burnet).
All that said, I consistently tell people that walking across America is about 99% mental. While it’s true that I need legs & arms that work to walk the Walk, the greatest challenge is enduring night after night on the road– never in a familiar home environment– never getting to hang out with the familiar friends & family I grew up with, nor shop at my local grocery stores, travel familiar roads, or (especially) sleep in my own bed. Unlike Dorothy, my words could be described as, “there’s no place that’s home.”
Of course, vital to a successful Walk to me is remaining positive– seeing the glass at least half full (even 99% full)– therefore: “every place is home.”
Before beginning the Walk, I ventured out on a number of silent, ten-day meditation courses, each of which is far more mentally challenging than any ten days of walking across America. These ten-day meditation courses were the best possible preparation for the road: mental preparation– for the greatest strength comes from within.
Nowadays, as much as I love it whenever anyone stops to walk with me, I also enjoy any solitude I experience on the road (in fact, I need it).
All that said, by far the greatest reward of all my miles though has been the wonderful pleasure of meeting so many sweet souls across America– Amanda + everyone else– people whose smiles brighten our world
Blog of the day in progress…
They’re out.
An “uh-oh” wave reverberated through my body as I noticed this tiny roadside rattlesnake amid today’s dozen miles. Even though most of my 4,400+ miles have been through rattlesnake territory, I’ve had very few sightings of rattlesnakes across these miles, and only one close call. I simply have to keep this wider truth in mind now as they emerge from hibernation, rattlesnakes of all ages.
I saw two babies on the side the road today. I don’t know if either was alive. Babies can be more dangerous than adults, as they may be more prone to bite defensively, and, unlike adult rattlers, which regulate their venom, baby rattlers may deliver a full load of venom with their bites.
As most states have little if any paved shoulder on the sides of highways, Virginia being one of these states, I’m going to have to remain on high alert now as I continue across the miles ahead. The scary thing is that small rattlers blend in so well with their surroundings. Luckily, however, momentum is on my side: I’ve made it this far without being bit, and will likely finish the Walk puncture-free as well…
These cute little girls made us the greatest of ballpark concession stand offers: “if we clean up the trash around here, can we pick out a piece of candy?”
How could we say no??
Once they cleaned up their end of the bargain, we gladly delivered the goods!