After some 13 sunny and breezy miles down highway 90, I reached the Alabama border at a few minutes before 6 P.M. Just as I was crossing the road, approaching the WELCOME TO ALABAMA sign, some cyclists appeared from around the curve. Fred & Linda, a baby boomer couple from Seattle, are currently riding a tandem bike from San Diego to St. Augustine, FL. We stopped and chatted for a few merry minutes, took pics, and then returned to the road, as they had fifteen more miles to ride before dark, and I still had a handful of miles to walk– in addition to finding a safe place to rest my head for the night.
The closer I made it to today’s final destination of Grand Bay (a town whose name I keep saying wrong), the friendlier the passing motorists seem to become– many honking and waving. No invitations for hosting, however. So I proceeded into town, where I knew that a handful of churches were to be found. I had less than an hour before dark, and there was no time to rest. I was calm and my heart was in the right place, yet the survival-mode part of me kept me very focused on finding hosting as soon as possible. After passing a unfamiliarly-named church with a minivan out front, I saw at least half a dozen cars in the nearby First United Methodist Church parking lot, where a young man was shooting hoops in the parking lot. I headed right in. I actually wanted to stop and shoot hoops with him (I love basketball!), but my focus was unshaken, and I quickly explained to him what I was doing and what I was seeking.
“The pastor and a delegation just began a really important, closed-door meeting. They’ve locked the doors,” he told me, “they could easily be in there for an hour or more.”
Had I been hearing this at 2 PM, I would’ve simply waited around, but since the sun was setting, I persisted: “Do you think they’d mind if I knocked on the door and asked them for a safe place to camp or sleep on the floor?”
The young man seemed quite reluctant about the idea, but not willing to make any such decision on his own. “I don’t know– I suppose you could always try it.”
It would be dark before long, and this could be my best prospect, so I was willing to give it a shot. Worst case scenario, I’m told “no.”
The young man pointed me to a white door, on the other side of which everyone was meeting. I approached the door and put my ear up to it. I heard serious conversation, but then I heard some good laughter. Well trained by now, I acted immediately: Knock! Knock! Knock!
The polite gentleman who answered the door led me to Reverend John Baxter, seated with about ten others at an important church committee meeting. I explained the Walk and my overnight request to them. They listened sincerely, and asked me to please step outside so they could quickly discuss it.
Reverend Baxter emerged within about three minutes, told me they were all satisfied with me and my request, and showed me where I could camp. He also left open a section of the church for restroom and kitchen access. “Everything is very safe around here,” he assured me.
Thanking the reverend and breathing relief with the accomplishment, I moved on to the local grocery store, grabbed an affordable dinner, and met several more sweet locals before returning here to the FUMC for the night.
Another day of nearly 17 miles walked. I’m about 22 miles out from Mobile, and despite walking above-average mileage counts the last couple of days, I’m confident I’ll still have enough good energy to make it into Mobile by tomorrow evening. Then it’ll be time to spend a few days in Mobile, get to know the city and its people, and take care of more personal biz in the process.
So far, so good in Sweet Home Alabama– and I’m ready for more!
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Spending the Night at the Pascagoula Police Station
“There has to be a reason for all of this. A fascinating experience is about to come,” I kept telling myself.
Typically, when I’m referred by a friend of a friend to be hosted at a future destination on the route, very rarely does the referral fall through for any sort of reason. After a smilingly lively weekend with the quartet of marine biologists in Ocean Springs, I left this morning for Gautier/Pascagoula.
1) Arthur & Cathy, the airboat tour operators I spent a night with last month in Des Allemands, Louisiana, told me they had a friend in Pascagoula I could stay with. 2) Fellow walker Andrew Forsthoefel hooked me up with Michael L, a friendly man who had hosted him while walking through Pascagoula. And before I left today: 3) Ocean Springs hosts Jeni et al told me they thought their friend George would probably like to host me in Gautier, the town just shy of Pascagoula. Stepping into a day with three referral connections is one of the most promising ways to start any day on the road, and I don’t know that there’s ever been a time that three promising pitches have led to a strike out– till today.
As the day’s miles were beginning, Cathy told me that their Pascagoula friend just sent them a message from Colorado. Upon reaching the outskirts of Gautier, Jeni texted me that Gautier George is also out of town. And Michael L wasn’t responding to three phone calls and a text message over 24 hours.
From afar, the people of Pascagoula weren’t welcoming me in with open arms– yet the day’s weather was beautiful– perfect 70-something weather with wind at my back. A 17-mile day didn’t pull much sweat from me at all.
All options exhausted, including a couple of calls to local churches, I felt impelled to simply continue forward, into Pascagoula. Such uncertain end-of-day scenarios really used to stress me out through the first few hundred miles. Where would I end up staying???
3,500 miles into this Walk, however, wisdom was on my side. Something always works out. It may not be the something I most hope for, but even when it ends up being a tougher evening than anticipated, I always end up experiencing and learning something important.
Though I know by now that “it will all work out,” I still feel my subconscious shifting into more of a hyperaware survival mode when facing these situations. Finishing off the day’s miles by walking across the large bridges of the west & east forks of the Singing River, I had to focus on staying calm, with the faith that these other three hosting opportunities had fallen through in order to simply open a door for a new and yet-to-be-known opportunity. I just typically prefer to know what those new opportunities are as soon as possible– especially when there’s only an hour of sunlight remaining.
I’d quickly seen Andrew Forsthoefel’s blog this morning before I left Ocean Springs, and I remember reading that upon arriving to Lampasas, he walked straight into the Police Station to ask for their assistance. They placed him in touch with a local ministerial alliance, who rented him a motel room. I’d only walked into a police station seeking assistance once, in Willits, California, and they offered me no assistance. I’d never tried since– but as the other opportunities has fallen through, I felt inspired to stop into the police station in Pascagoula.
Google Maps showed me that the Pascagoula police station was close to the Hwy 90 bridge, and I was inside their front doors within five minutes of stepping into town. I approached the window and I explained my story and my desire (a safe place to sleep) to the dispatcher, Ms. Angie. Angie told me she’d contact her lieutenant, who’d be returning in 20 minutes, to see if he could help me with options. Angie sounded sincere, which felt promising.
Lieutenant Barnes showed up with a large, enthusiastic smile on his face. My normal modus operandi is that I only ask for something as simple as a place to camp, yet I’m always ready for floor space or more as well. Lt. Barnes showed me some space under the nearby bridge where I could camp, and though I was ready to accept it, he could tell I was also enthusiastic to explore other options. He welcomed me into his office, sat me down, and got busy on the phone. He called people he knew, including owners of a local B & B, which he knew would be a great hosting experience for me. But they were full. Lt. Barnes was prepared to continue making calls on my behalf, but having told me that he’d find a spot for me within the station if nothing else worked out, I was ready to take him up on this offer sooner than later.
I’ve been hosted in a number of motels and B&Bs, all of which are nice, but being hosted for a night in a police station promised to be a unique and memorable experience indeed!
Lt. Barnes introduced me to the staff, and requested an officer take me to the grocery store and a nearby restaurant– far better service than most motels give their guests! I was taken on a tour of the jail portion of the station, and invited to sleep in one of the cells, if I wished. My other option was to sleep on the exercise room floor. Option B simply was easier, and felt more inviting too. The cells felt creepy. I’m sorry for those who have to spend days and nights within them. No windows. Scary.
Lt. Barnes normally supervises police activity from the station; however, he gets out and drives around some every shift as well– to keep from feeling stuck behind an office desk for 12 hours at a time. He invited me with him, and took me on a through-police-lieutenant’s-eyes nighttime tour of the town. He showed me the shipbuilding plant, the oil refinery, the natural gas storage facility, and Mississippi Phosphates. He drove me along the beach and showed me the multimillion-dollar waterfront homes, many of which have been constructed next to still-vacant lots with residual concrete foundations after Hurricane Katrina.
Though over a mile into town, Katrina’s storm surge still flooded the police station. Up to ten feet flooded Pascagoula, and the surge pushed water in for miles, up to Interstate 10 and beyond. Everyone was flooded to some extent, and sadly, as was the case from New Orleans to the east, many who chose not to evacuate perished in the storm.
As he told me of the 12-hour shifts they worked for 30 days straight during Katrina and the aftermath, as he described the knowledge of the city and the efforts they make to keep it safe, and as I could tell that he genuinely served to create a better world for himself and the people around him, my gratitude and respect for the police profession grew. Many times I’ve received small forms of assistance from police across the miles. And now that I’m being hosted for the first time in a police station, especially when left with no other simple option at the end of the day, my gratitude for Lt. Barnes, the Pascagoula police staff, and the good cops of the globe really shot through the roof.
Now I understand why all three of those friend-of-friend referrals were all unavailable to host me!!
How Awesome!!
Hanging with the Masters of Marine Biology in Ocean Springs
Not only was it great to have been suddenly sidetracked with a 4-day detour in Biloxi, the Biloxi opportunity also ended up opening a free weekend window for the fun house of four in Ocean Springs.
Jennifer McKinney, friend of walk-across-America veteran Skip Potts (Skip had originally advised me before I began my Walk), had written to me months ago, after Skip showed her this video. She invited me to stay with her & her roommates in Ocean Springs. As the Ocean Springs quartet are all marine biologists, they spend the weekdays out at sea, in the lab, or doing other related things, so arriving Friday night opened up the perfect opportunity to spend a fun weekend with them all. Jennifer is originally from California; Jeremy, her boyfriend, is from Chicago via Kansas; Sara is from Sevilla, Spain; and Will, the dreadlocked twentysomething “youngster,” is actually a native of Mississippi.
Though I’ve walked over half of my Mississippi miles by now, with brief exceptions in Pearlington and Gulfport, I’ve still spent almost no time with people who are actually from Mississippi. This is in no way by design– I’m simply accepting whatever invitations I receive from many great people along my route.
Will explained to me that this small strip of coastline I’ve been walking is a very distinct part of Mississippi. “North of Interstate 10, it’s like a whole different state. The Mississippi coast has much more in common with New Orleans,” Will explains, “there’s a large Catholic population here; it’s a more relaxed atmosphere; there’s a constant flow of people from other parts of the country and world; and there isn’t the great reliance on agriculture as there is in most of the rest of Mississippi.”
Though there are only a handful of miles between I-10 and the coastline itself, the Air Force base in addition to shipping and other port-related industries on the Gulf Coast ensure a constant influx of people from all over. There are also people who came shortly after Hurricane Katrina to help with the rebuilding efforts, and ended up staying (Julie in Biloxi, for example). Many coastal residents who left after Katrina destroyed the area never returned. Given that I’ve been walking the coastline for most of my Mississippi miles, I’ve been fully immersed in this cultural melting pot.
Will is from central Mississippi, Madison, a “white flight” suburb of Jackson, as he describes it. He went to college in Hattiesburg and is just now completing his graduate studies here on the Gulf Coast. Will has endless stories about Mississippi culture and differences. Though there are still black churches and white churches throughout Mississippi, in addition to “voluntary” residential segregation in most cities, the most extreme racist attitudes that Mississippi was known for decades ago have slowly been evaporating over the generations, Will explained to me. Will’s generation would never dream of using separate bathrooms or drinking fountains for different races– whereas his mother was spanked as a child for once drinking from a fountain labeled “colored.” Born in the 1980’s, in the early years of integration, the concept of separate water fountains “blows my mind,” Will explains. Will tells me that even though many of the whites of his parents’ generation are no longer overtly racist, many also would not be able to see themselves working for a black man. Many people of his grandparents generation generally have (had) sweet and lovely personalities, but it seemed to simply be ingrained in them that whites were superior to blacks, and were to be separated and treated superiorly.
Sadly, it doesn’t surprise me to hear this, for throughout America, especially within older age groups, it’s not at all uncommon to find a very hardened, ingrained attitudes about political ideologies or about faith/religion. (I’ve found myself really having to remain “on guard” about this sort of thing as I continue to age!) So many of us have the only “correct” answer, and we’re commonly open to being heard, yet rarely open to being kindly debated– as we (sadly) often don’t ask the most critical questions ourselves before fully subscribing to specific religious and political ideologies– making them a core part of our personal identities– identities (ego) which may feel “in danger” if we suddenly decide to ponder the issues deeply after many years. The ego often feels safer by just following the fellow singing sheep. Collectively, we all have a long way to go…
The fun trio of nights in Ocean Springs draws to a close this morning, as the marine biologist quartet returns to work, and so do I. I’m to walk at least 17 miles today, to Pascagoula, where Michael L, a friend of Andrew Forsthoefel, has told Andrew he’d like to provide me with a room and meal at his motel and restaurant. I contacted Michael last night, and still haven’t heard back. I’ll try him again today, and if I don’t hear back in time, I simply need to arrive before sunset, which makes it far easier for me to make cold calls and knock on doors out of the blue, should I need to.
The rain clouds of this weekend have departed, welcoming a bright and shiny morning and new week. At this point, it’s completely unpredictable how today will end. That said, I’ve been on the road long enough by now to simply “feel” that from start to finish, challenges and all, today will be a great day!!
4-Day Detour in Biloxi!
I awoke on Monday morning, April 16, 2012, expecting to walk 19 miles through headwinds and seashore sidewalk sand mounds to reach Ocean Springs. Any day with strong, consistent headwinds has me feeling like I’m walking many more miles. Pushing my cart through countless large, disabling mounds of beach sand on the sidewalk has me feeling like I’m walking more miles. To add to this all, Ocean Springs host Jennifer was set to be busy throughout the business week, and I’d wasn’t sure I’d even get the chance to meet her. So, when Julie Kuklinski suddenly phoned me out of nowhere and invited me to be hosted on her Benachi Avenue block full of bubbly souls, it didn’t take me long to accept her offer.
Julie’s house was no more than 13 miles from Bernie & Barbara’s, in Gulfport, a reduced total which released the burden of stress from my shoulders. Daryl, her roommate, came to meet and walk with me on the Biloxi beach sidewalk. Before he arrived, nearly a half dozen other fun local youths approached and walked with me for about half a mile– curious & cute local high school students and a nice man in his early 20’s.
Daryl & I arrived to Julie’s a few minutes before her, and it didn’t take long to feel the presence of a great community all around this sweet little home. The roommates get along really well; the neighbors are not only familiar with each other, they’re more than welcome to just let themselves in the front door; they all have friendly dogs; and, each in their own unique way works to contribute to making the world a better place. Julie, for her part, helps homeless women gain skills to find decent-paying jobs.
My invitation was quickly extended from one night to two, and the next day, from two to four. Each time, it just felt so right to be sticking around and accepting the invitation. I feel so fortunate to have spent a full four nights with them. They remind me a lot of Josh & Laura and all their sweet neighbors in Lake Charles. Not only did I gain a special familiarity with them all, as it turns out, they’re remotely familiar with Ocean Springs host Jennifer as well.
As Friday was only a 7-mile day from Julie’s home to Jennifer’s, I left after Julie was finished with work, so she could join me on the road for a while on my way out of Biloxi.
The short-sleeve spring weather couldn’t have been more perfect. Perfect conclusion to the 4-day detour. I’m confident we’ll all stay in touch, as I especially hope they’ll come camp with me somewhere in the miles ahead. Such sweet people– and now that Jennifer & her roommates have the weekend off, Ocean Springs awaits!!
Gulfport, Mississippi: Enjoying the Gulf Coast While it Lasts!
I reached Gulfport on foot yesterday, amid some serious, sustained, flag-flapping Gulf winds. I’ve had a handful of very windy days while walking: such winds were smacking me at the left side through Cochise, Arizona. They were comfortably at my back en route to Lordsburg, New Mexico. And in one of the most exhausting days of the entire walk, they were strongly in my face almost for almost all of my 22 miles to Big Spring, Texas.
Yesterday was only a ten-mile day, and to count my blessings, the wind was at my side, no rain, no intense temperatures, and Gulfport hosts Bernie & Barbara relieved me of my load through the final 2 miles. That said, as mounds of beach sand piled their way onto the coast-hugging sidewalk, I found the sand more challenging to push wheels through than any and all else: I’ll take mud over sand in a heartbeat! And unlike dirt and most other substances, wet sand is much easier to navigate across than dry sand. (I have no ambition to find dune-buggy tires for my cart.)
Hosts Bernie & Barbara Walker, who’ve hosted 2 other cross-country walkers and who’ve been awaiting me since NOLA, invited me into quite the happening household: their sister, Penny, is currently visiting from Virginia; and a mother-son pair from southern India are currently staying here as well amid their travels together through the States. It’s the son’s first time here, they’re traveling by Harley Davidson, and they also met the Walkers via Couchsurfing. The Walkers took everyone to New Orleans yesterday, before I showed up, and today, they took us all out on their seaboat. We spent all day on the bays and bayous north of the Gulfport-Biloxi peninsula, seeing sides of Mississippi that many who live their lives in the state will never get to see. Quite an amazingly diverse country we live in. The more I learn about it and the more I experience it, the more I love it!
Tomorrow, I’m to walk nearly 19 miles, through Biloxi and to Ocean Springs. Serious winds are to be at my side and in my face again, with 30% chance of thunderstorms. One of my tires is having a tough time staying inflated. That said, as I’m leaning toward turning north at Pensacola, these may be my final Gulf Coast walking miles, and I’m determined to appreciate such miles while they last! Attitude: Optimistic!
Farewell, Louisiana… THANK YOU for EVERYTHING!!!
When walking more than 20 miles in a day, it’s always best to not have taken more than a day or two off from any previous 10+mile day. If I wait as long as four days, my body has already slipped from tip-top shape. This was exactly the case for Saturday’s 24-mile walk out of Louisiana.
I began the day in the Bayou Savage National Wildlife Refuge, where Phil, Richard & I had left off four days earlier. Despite too many days off (totally my doing), light winds in my face, mosquitoes all around, the day was sunny and not too hot, and I felt blessed by this. I exchanged a meaningful goodbye with Phil Goddard, who had advised me of how to walk across America months before I ever began, and had hosted me for the past five nights in NOLA.
The Bayou Savage National Wildlife Refuge is a very special place– especially to walk across– a real jewel of an experience for my final miles of Louisiana. There are over 24,000 acres of fresh and brackish marshes and coastal hardwood forests, and they’re technically all still within the city limits of New Orleans, making it the nation’s largest urban National Wildlife Refuge. About two hours into the day’s walk, I began smelling sea salt in the air, which was such a sweet sensation, as I hadn’t walked close to the coast since Santa Monica– two years ago! I’ll soon be reaching the shores of the Gulf Coast on foot!!!
NOLA’s fire station #31 rests on the main hwy slicing through the Refuge, many miles from the all-day action that other in-town crews experience, but as fellow walker Andrew Forsthoefel had spent a night with them, I figured I’d pay a brief visit while walking by as well. The quartet of firefighters on staff remembered Andrew well, and while spending about 15 minutes with them, they hooked me up with extra mosquito repellent and threw in a NOLA Fire Dept T-Shirt for the road as well.
Two more miles down Highway 90, Chef Menteur Hwy, the only road I’d need to walk all day, brought me past the well-to-do Venetian Isles neighborhood. Darrel, a local who was just returning from a 10k morning run invited me into the house to meet the family. I ended up meeting three generations of Darrel’s family, including an art room where a handful of baby-boomer men were working on painting wood-carved ducks, pelicans and eagles. One of the mallards that was near completion looked absolutely real from a ten feet away– amazing! Standing and talking to them for twenty minutes, one of them asked me,”what’s the strangest thing you’ve ever seen in all your miles?”
I answered him, “well, one time I was walking through a neighborhood, a guy offered me a break at his house, and I was taken to a back room where I was surprised to see a bunch of guys carving and painting birds.” It took them a second to get it, and they really seemed to like my answer. The real answer is that every day is so diverse, and so much has happened, that it’s difficult to generate specific answers to these types of questions. (Give me a point on the map where I walked, and ask me how that day went, and I’ll remember it well enough to tell a story.)
Darrel’s family and friends told me how their neighborhood, far from NOLA’s levees, was well under about 25 feet of water with Katrina’s storm surge– they pointed to a neighbor’s flag pole to show me how high the water rose. Almost everyone had evacuated; however, a few stubborn locals had the “I’ve survived every other storm and I’ll survive this one too” attitude, and such stubborness cost many of them their lives.
After nearly an hour with Darrel’s family, despite feeling invited to hang out all day (and maybe longer), it was time to return to the road. For the first time while walking, I was seeing neighborhoods of houses on pilings– stilts twenty feet tall onto which the homes sit. Cars and other storage items rest below these homes, and long stair cases lead up and into each of the homes.
15 miles into the day, beyond an antique, narrow drawbridge and a tall, mile-long bridge with a great view, I reached Rigolets, where I crossed paths with a Brian, a Hawaiian who had been bicycling all the way from Tampa, Florida. After ten minutes of chatting with Brian, I reached a large, black Ford pickup where Aubrey & Mrs. Norris, a retired couple, had pulled up to speak with me. Of course, they asked me the standard what and why.
“For cancer prevention…” I explained.
“How does walking across America prevent cancer?” Aubrey skeptically probed.
“I’m taking countless steps across America with the goal of inspiring fellow Americans to take steps forward in their lives, lead healthier lifestyles, and create better, brighter worlds for themselves as well as for those around them. At minimum, I ask people to take a daily walk. Exercise, eating, and stress management all lead to a decreased risk of cancer.”
“Where are you headed?”
“Washington, DC; however, today I’ll end the day in Pearlington.”
Aubrey proceeded to give me about five minutes of his meaning-of-life perspectives before asking me,”Well, do you need a place to stay? We live in Pearlington. You can throw your stuff in the back and hop in now if you’d like…”
“I may have an invitation or two in Pearlington, but I’d love to take your number, just in case.” People who’d hosted Andrew Forsthoefel in Pearlington were willing to let me camp in their yard, and Pastor John of the local Baptist church told me he could arrange for a room and a shower for me. As the sun was setting though, and as I had another ten miles to walk, it was clear I wouldn’t be arriving before 10PM. The cart was cumbersome, and the roadside shoulders would soon be narrowing into traffic-only space, much trickier for pushing the cart. So, thinking fast before they left, I asked, “what if I put my stuff in the back of your truck now, and catch up to you in Pearlington, would that be OK?”
“Yes, sure!”
I was free of the cart for the next three hours. After dark and within my final 2 miles of Louisiana, I began placing gratitude-filled phone calls to many of the people who had made Louisiana such an overwhelmingly beautiful experience for me. I wish I could have spoken with all of them, but the handful of conversations and messages left before the Mississippi border really helped to seal off the oh-so-special Bayou State experience…
Though it took me till 10PM to arrive, Aubrey’s help made those final ten miles twice as easy as the previous fourteen, and was especially useful to me as I arrived exhausted, so ready to sleep. I’d canceled the other invitations on the way.
Though I was utterly exhausted, Aubrey was enthusiastic to engage in conversation for another couple of hours. Some of it I remember; much of it I don’t. Being a good guest translates to not simply arriving and demanding a bed to sleep in however, no matter how much the body may desire that. Establishing a positive rapport is essential, even if that was to take many post-exhaustion hours to achieve.
I awoke tired on Easter morning, body aching from Saturday’s long, against-the-wind miles. The miles, mosquitoes, and sun all added up to do a number on me, and I was not going to be in any condition to walk 19 more miles to Bay St. Louis. That said, I also don’t just invite myself into peoples’ homes for extra days. Aubrey did invite me to stay longer though, and I accepted this invitation pretty quickly. I did very little all day, resting my aching body, and getting to know Mr. & Mrs. Norris better while here.
Early this morning, I still feel aches and pains under the skin, but I also feel my strength quickly recollecting to empower me across the miles ahead. Those 24 miles may have worn my body out, but my spirit remains strong. This will be my first full day of walking in Mississippi, and I’m excited!
Fifteen Miles from NOLA’s Marigny
My latest host in New Orleans, since Monday afternoon, is Phil Goddard, the British man who walked across America five years ago, and whose on-line “how to” was so helpful to me before I began. Richard Noble, who also happens to be walking across America at the moment (for greater equality and human rights)also recently showed up to town. I don’t what it is about Louisiana that seems to be bringing all of these cross-country walkers together, but if I meet any more before the Mississippi border, I’ll have to see about organizing a convention.
I’d asked Phil if he wanted to team up with me and walk some miles together upon my departure from NOLA, and he quickly agreed. He only had two days easily available to him to do so: the first Tuesday and Wednesday of April. So, Phil, Richard & I all teamed up for a few miles on Tuesday. We walked fifteen miles under the 85-degree sun, through “dangerous” east New Orleans (which was no problem at all), and about a mile are so into the Bayou Savage National Wildlife Refuge. The last half of the day, the mosquitoes grew fiercer and fiercer with us. Luckily, four miles before the end of our day, the scattered structures of NOLA’s eastern edge suddenly revealed blocks of a Vietnamese part of town, and a strip mall with three pharmacies. We immediately went inside for bug spray, and bought a small can to split between the three of us. Though we ended up spraying ourselves up and down, the mosquitoes grew so intense that they found any uncovered square inch of skin to bite. They bit through our shirts. They tried digging through our hair. They’re quite the persistent little pests.
As we were entering the refuge, the magical live oaks’ insidious spring secret was revealed all across the roadside shoulders: stinging caterpillars! I was introduced to these spike-filled caterpillars the hard way, when I leaned up against an oak tree full of them in central NOLA a few days ago. They say hello with a large, painful-as-fire sting. They fall from trees, and walking on the road’s shoulder, under the branches, places anyone at risk. Luckily, we avoided them all as we walked through the asphalt mine field of the almost-butterflies.
When I walk with someone new, I can generally tell how strong they are a few hours into the day. Phil & Richard both were very obviously seasoned veterans. Phil hasn’t been doing any great distance walking in years, but walking with him Tuesday, it was like he was simply picking up a long, stored-away bicycle from years ago– he was obviously very comfortable in this role.
“If I hadn’t met Pam, whom I eventually married, on my walk across America, I don’t know that I would have stopped walking. I really loved it.” Phil explained, and this was so easy to see in his steps.
We’re doing some back-and-forth days this week, days in which all miles are covered, yet Pam shuttles us back to their place in Marigny both nights. Wednesday’s weather has yet to fully reveal itself, and possible thunderstorms may affect our ability to walk (or not). It felt weird returning to NOLA in a car the very day we spent hours walking out on foot, yet Pam’s eggplant parmagiana dinner wiped away any “weirdness” as we all danced in culinary heaven.
Loud storms roared into the night as I lay may bedroll down on Phil & Pam’s wooden dining room floor, very ready to get a great night’s sleep. I’m eager for tomorrow’s treasures to arrive…
~ Too Happy Where I’m At ~
~ Too Happy Where I’m At ~
Like many of the rest of us, at first I found the news of his past weekend’s record $500+ million jackpot irresistible. Though I never play the lottery or go to casinos, I suddenly felt the need to go gamble. I figured I’d spend $5 on the $500+ million dollar jackpot. There was a convenience store across the street from the New Orleans’ Uptown home where I was staying, and as was the case with many millions of Americans who purchased over a billion tickets, I found myself in line. Standing in line that line though, a stream of thoughts quickly flashed through my mind.
“I feel so fortunate that I didn’t begin this walk as some Silicon Valley multi-millionaire,” are words I’ve told countless people. The reason? If I’d made vast sums of cash within my first fifteen years of adulthood (I began the Walk at age 33), I would perhaps be so glued to the rhythm of blindly increasing the dollar signs, that I may have never even considered embarking on this epic, life-transforming pilgrimage. And even if I had decided on doing the Walk as a big-money man– I certainly would have arranged nice hotel and motel stays for myself all along the way. I would have organized a top-notch, expensive RV to follow me every step of the way– always ensuring a safe place for me to sleep, in addition to only the best possible food– always. Not only would I have taken all of this for granted, it’s also likely that I could be suspicious of anyone offering to help me along the way– wondering: “are they just trying to help me because I’m rich and famous? Are they just looking for a piece of the pie?” Those thoughts and others surely would have poisoned my mind.
Slim Start:
I began the Walk of Inspiration Across America with less than $5,000. I was initially going to be walking for 270 days. Doing the math, I was to be relegated to about $18 daily to cover ALL of my expenses. This adds up to about $550 per month. How many of us live off just $500 a month? Almost none. Complicating things, I typically spend twice as much daily while traveling as I do when living at home. I had no idea how I was going to pull this mission off. Thoughts of all these logistical hurdles were very intimidating to me.
The calling to embark on this walk of inspiration was far too strong a calling for me to ignore, however, and despite not quite knowing how– I knew I just had to move forward. I ran a number of thought scenarios through my mind to determine if I could make it forward. I figured out which questions I most needed to ask myself. They were:
1. Was I ready to spend countless nights on my own, in the middle of nowhere, and always reaching new “nowheres” as the miles progressed? Was I ready to find places in populated areas where I could play “hide and sleep?”
I was never a Boy Scout, I’ve never been an outdoorsman, and I have very little experience camping. I’ve never simply set up camp out in the middle of nowhere, nor do I recall ever camping alone. The idea of venturing out into vast stretches of thousands of miles of unfamiliar territory was intimidating, to say the least. But as strong as the calling for the Walk was, I knew I was going to face a lot of challenges amid the long miles, but I was mentally prepared to face them.
2. What if I ran into foul play on the road?
I couldn’t let this scare me. The calling to do the Walk was important enough to me to risk kidnapping and/or death. The way I settled things in my mind, I never let fear of an auto fatality scare me from driving my car; I didn’t let fear of burglary scare me from going to sleep at night; and though the Walk was something new to me, I wasn’t about to let fear to keep me from answering this calling. Of course, this didn’t mean that all fear vanished instantly–it just meant that I gave myself the upper hand, one that only grew stronger over the miles.
3. What if I my money ran extremely low, and I knew I wouldn’t be able to buy enough food to make it all the way across?
I figured this would be the most threatening of scenarios. Food is expensive, and especially on the road, the price of food was guaranteed to be a hurdle that I wasn’t confident I’d always be able to overcome. A further complication was that I was used to eating higher quality, more expensive food. This became quite the planning challenge, months before I even took my first steps. I was determined to confront the challenge though, and I remembered an image from Belo Horizonte, Brazil, fifteen years earlier:
Inacio, the household handyman for the Pinheiro family, who hosted me for six months while I attended a local private school, comprised part of Brazil’s majority of impoverished workers. Working full time, Inacio earned only $160 per month to support his wife and three daughters. I remember my eyes almost bulging from my head once as I saw Inacio toss a kernel of dry dog food in his mouth. Though household servants typically eat from the same lunch meal that they prepare for the more affluent families that employ them, I was later told that it’s not uncommon for the poor in Brazil to (occasionally) subsist off dog food.
The image of Inacio eating the dog food kernel as if it were no big deal– quite the eye opener at the time for me– will always remain very vivid within my memory. Having grown into something of a “human equality” champion over the years of my adulthood, I definitely hope for everyone in the world to have adequate access to wholesome food. That said, I also understand that some simply will do what they must to survive. And they mustn’t be humiliated for doing so. If severely impoverished humans can survive off dog food, then humans of all economic class levels can conceivably survive off dog food too.
This became the ultimate test for me: is this calling for a Walk of Inspiration Across America so strong, that if it truly came down to it, would I be willing to survive off dog food just to complete it? Wow– that was a big one. It took me a minute to ponder it, but deep inside my gut I’d known the answer all along: Yes. At no point would I hope to have to survive off dog food, but if it came down to having to take such a drastic measure to complete this mission, I would do so. It was truly that important to me.
The dog food test was for me the greatest are-you-ready litmus test for the Walk. Looking back now, thousands of miles into the Walk, I’ll tell anyone that walking across America is 99% mental, and for anyone who may consider such an endeavor, they need to make formulate their own personal litmus tests, to ensure that their minds are ready for the rigorous road as well.
Helping Hands of Angels:
Though I was (and still am) mentally prepared to survive off Kibbles’n’Bits if need be, two months into the Walk, upon walking across the Golden Gate Bridge, I found I had just as much money as I’d begun the Walk with. So many Angels on the path had been helping me all along the way, giving me shelter, food, and other resources to further empower me on my pilgrimage. I never once imagined such a scenario– and I definitely hadn’t planned on this being the case.
I started off not knowing how I was going to make it, but I couldn’t let that stop me. The gut message to move forward was so strong, that I was ready to face the uncertainties, and I’d not only been learning lots every day on the job, I was also being given food and shelter constantly by Angels.
The True Wealth of the Walk:
The Angels whom I’ve been meeting all across the thousands of walking miles have by far been the greatest benefit of the entire experience to me. I feel sooo fortunate that I didn’t have millions of dollars at my disposal to walk across America, for if I had that kind of money from the outset, my experiences would have been nowhere near as rich as they have been. The Angels I’ve been meeting all across the miles are in every way the greatest wealth of the Walk. Being the poor man walking has led the richest possible experiences!
I could definitely stand to lose the $1 or the $5 spent on losing tickets. But at this point in life, I don’t think I could handle the transformation that a winning $500 million ticket would bring. And I wouldn’t want that. Every day I feel so happy to know that I’m living my dream. Challenges are of course constantly present, but life would grow dull and boring without challenges. Every day I feel like I’m living the type of movie I’d be most interested in watching, the book I’d be most interested in reading. (As a result, I’ve been spending very little time with either.)
Suddenly winning the great MegaMillions jackpot would have quickly created far more problems than it could have solved. Yes, I’m confident that I could ultimately put such funds to great use for one and for all, but I’m not ready to deal with any type of lottery circus at this point. Even if I had acquired a winning ticket and quietly locked it away in a bank’s safe deposit box, I’d still be thinking about it all day, every day, all the way to Washington, DC. As I’ve been so fortunate to find myself getting to know and truly appreciate countless locals across these past seven states, the type of enormous distraction delivered by a record-setting lottery jackpot would certainly prevent my heart from being touched so dearly by locals through the next seven states.
As it became very clear that the world’s greatest material windfall could quickly lead to George’s greatest spiritual downfall, I had no choice but to step out of the MegaMillions line…
Happening Upon One of My Heroes!
In early 2009, months before setting off on the big walk, I did some research on walking across America. One of many Google searches was “how to walk across America,” which took me directly to the page of a European man who’d walked across in 2006-07, also with a personal story rooted in the loss of a loved one to cancer. The advice I read was quite helpful, much of it helping to guide me in my early planning stages. I couldn’t find any easy way to enter into contact with the author, and after having found contact info for other guys who’d walked across (BJ Hill, Skip Potts and Greg Insco), I focused on a laundry list of questions to ask each of them on the phone. Their answers were also very helpful to me, and of course, as the story goes, I began the walk on Sept. 20, 2009.
In addition to hearing about multiple other walkers after beginning my walk, and having ultimately met Skip Potts, Troy Yocum, Ryan Powell, Jonathon Stalls, Katie Visco, Noah Coughlan and Andrew Forsthoefel (narrowly missing Zoë Romano and Matt Perdie), I was delighted but not quite as star-struck to hear of Phil Goddard, a man here in New Orleans who’d also walked across. A pedestrian neighbor who saw me with my cart mentioned Phil’s story and pointed his home out to me– directly across the street from the Royal Street Courtyard B&B, where until last Friday, I was staying. He wasn’t home at the time, and as I was to be around a few days, I put off the opportunity to meet him till later in the week.
The neighbor mentioned me & enjoythewalk to Phil as well, and the next day I ended up receiving an e-mail from him. “Let’s meet!”
Phil & I ended up meeting last Thursday night– he took me to a tasty local restaurant and bar (tasty Indian food!). About 90 minutes into our conversation and story exchanges, a sudden sense of familiarity hit: “Are you the guy that walked with the laptop, but left the battery behind due to weight issues?”
“Yes.”
“You had a sign that inspired many conversations, right? And a business card?”
“Yes, both.”
“Your media coverage worked out well, and regarding fundraising, one of your stories was broadcast to over a million viewers in Memphis, yielding no more than $20 to your cause, right???”
Suddenly I was realizing how familiar I have long been with Phil’s story: “You published a ‘How to Walk Across America’” instructional, didn’t you??” I asked, seeing the nod in his eyes, “I totally read it three years ago!! WOW!!! I can’t believe that was you! I found that instructional online and it was super helpful! Thank You!!”
The couple of hours we had to hang out was not nearly enough, so since I’ll be spending another week in NOLA, we’ll be meeting up again. Richard Noble, another walker is about to arrive here next week too. Though he’s married and somewhat “settled” now in NOLA, Phil still thinks often of his time on the road, an experience he truly loved. I invited him to join me on my way out of town, and he accepted immediately. He’s more than invited to come along for as many miles as he wishes…
Truly Amazing, how this Universe works
These are the helpful words of guidance I read from Phil during the planning stages of my walk:
HOW TO WALK ACROSS AMERICA
A beginner’s guide
(C) Phil Goddard 2007
As I’ve been walking I have learned many things about what it takes to complete such an adventure, so I thought other people might benefit from my experiences.
Most importantly, if you’re even thinking about a coast-to-coast walk, or any long-distance trek, just go ahead and do it. It will change your life – and maybe other people’s – and all those nagging little worries will take care of themselves.
If you’re from outside the US, this is an especially good time. With the dollar at its lowest since 1992, meals and hotel rooms cost me half what they would have done at home in the UK.
American Discovery Trail
I didn’t use this, but it’s a combination of back roads and hiking trails running from California to Delaware. For details, see www.discoverytrail.org.
Banners
My most valuable possession was the plastic banner on my backpack, which sparked innumerable conversations, acts of generosity and, perhaps most importantly, donations. I had to undo it every time I opened my backpack, so I attached it with twists of plastic-covered wire rather than knotted string.
Blisters
These were a problem for the first few weeks, and then again each time I wore a new pair of boots. I found it was best to dispatch them as quickly and cleanly as possible rather than leaving them to get better of their own accord.
Cards
Hand out cards with your name and website address to people who give you money or are otherwise especially nice. These also act as a reassurance to donors that you’re not a con artist or fantasist, and they can see their donations on your website.
Charity, walking for
You must raise money for a good cause, so your walk isn’t just a self-indulgent jaunt and actually makes the world a very slightly better place. It doesn’t matter if you only have $50 to show for it at the end; walking for charity gives you a real sense of purpose and direction.
Clothing
Mine basically consisted of four t-shirts and a sweatshirt with my ‘Coast to coast’ logo, a pair of long pants with unzippable legs that converted into shorts, and a lightweight but warm jacket during the winter.
Don’t buy cotton t-shirts – they quickly get soaked in sweat and show the dirt. Use synthetics instead, which you can hand-wash with a bar of soap and are dry in an hour. If you start in summer, save weight by buying your winter clothing when it starts getting cold, and vice versa.
Most good motels have guest laundries.
Distances
I averaged about 15 to 20 miles a day, and my record was 32. My overall daily average for the whole trip was much less, because I treated myself to several two- to three-week breaks, taking ten months to walk 3,000 miles.
Donations
Some charities will allow you to set up your own specific fund on their websites so that people can donate online. Alternatively, use Firstgiving.com or, in the UK, Justgiving.com. They take five percent of everything they collect, but charities like them because they do all the administration and send them regular payments. Their websites also have lots of useful hints on publicizing your cause.
When people gave cash donations, I kept the money for my day-to-day expenses and made regular equivalent donations via my Justgiving.com page.
Food
I brought a little stove with me, but jettisoned it because I decided cooking food was too much trouble. However, I was able to afford motels and restaurants and travel in relative comfort; if you’re traveling on a lower budget and camping a lot, cooked food may be more important.
Footwear
Wear whatever feels right for you, but make sure it’s waterproof. I wore an expensive pair of walking boots and then, when these eventually expired, two pairs of ordinary workboots – so that was about a thousand miles per pair.
Interstates
In the deserts of the southwest – New Mexico and Arizona, principally – you may decide that following the interstate is the only option. Other routes are either non-existent or more circuitous, presenting a logistical challenge because they offer limited access to food and water supplies. Interstates have rest areas and truckstops every fifteen or twenty miles.
The police seem to be fairly relaxed about walking on the interstate, though you should face oncoming traffic and avoid walking after dark. I only used the interstate for a total of about 25 miles. I walked alongside the Union Pacific railroad for a couple of hundred miles; this follows I-10 closely, rarely at a distance of more than a mile, and has a path alongside it. Alternatively, you’ll usually find there’s often a frontage road, a path through the desert, or a wide strip of grass beside the shoulder where you can walk almost unnoticed.
Journals
Keep one: you’ll have far too many extraordinary experiences to carry around in your head for the rest of your life. And who knows, it could be the basis for a bestselling book. Same applies to blogs.
Laptops
My ultra-portable IBM Thinkpad was another of my most precious possessions. Updating my blog and answering emails made the time fly during all those long evenings in motels, and helped me to share the experience with hundreds of friends and strangers – which, if you’re fortunate enough to embark on such an epic journey, you have a duty to do. It was well worth the extra few pounds, and I left the battery at home to save weight.
Loneliness
Yes, you will feel lonely sometimes, but it never lasts for very long, and the experience of solitude can be life-changing. I found it more difficult at the beginning, but by the end I was almost dreading going back to a normal life surrounded by fellow humans.
Maps
I had a small-scale Michelin road atlas of the whole country, and tore out all the pages covering areas like Hawaii and Alaska which were unlikely to feature on my route. I also tore out the other pages as I finished with them.
As I entered each state, I bought a DeLorme atlas – sold everywhere, expensive at around $20, but very detailed and worth every penny. Again, I threw away all the pages I wouldn’t be using.
In Texas, New Mexico and Arizona I didn’t bother buying a DeLorme atlas because there were so few towns that everything worth knowing was marked in the small-scale Michelin.
And of course there’s Mapquest, one of the greatest inventions of the early 21st century. I spent hours poring over this and planning every little detail of my next few days – in fact sometimes I found myself becoming overdependent on it, and thought just get out there and walk.
Motels
Always ask for a discount. My standard spiel when I checked in was ‘I’d appreciate any discount you can give me, because I’m walking coast to coast for charity’. Nine times out of ten, the receptionist showed no interest at all, but still knocked ten dollars or more off the rack rate simply because I asked. On a few occasions, they gave me discounts ranging from 30% to 100%.
And sign up for every loyalty scheme you can lay your hands on. On average, twelve paid-for nights will earn you one free night. The best is Trip Rewards, because it covers about half the motel brands in America.
Publicity
Milk your walk for every iota of free advertising you can get: newspapers, radio, TV. You won’t get many donations direct (in Memphis, TN, a city of 1.2 million people, I was on the 6 pm and 10 pm TV news and received precisely one donation as a result), but you will get recognition when you’re out on the street the next day, and then people will give you money. It’s also great for your morale when people ask: ‘Are you the guy that was in the paper?’
Usually, my sister would send out a press release to all the local media just before I arrived, and then I followed these up with phone calls if there was no response. At first I thought the TV stations wouldn’t be interested, but I ended up getting quite a lot of coverage.
If you don’t know how to write a press release, get a friendly journalist to help.
Routes
I walked from New York to Los Angeles, but not by the most direct route. I started in June, so I caught the hot weather on the east coast and in the midwest, but I figured this was better than being in the deserts of the southwest during summer.
I also went a long way south, through Kentucky, Tennessee, Arkansas, Texas, New Mexico and Arizona, to avoid the really cold weather in winter. I had half a day of heavy snow and a couple of ice storms, but that was about all.
Before I set off, I spent hours poring over piles of maps and planning a route, but then I decided this was all pointless. It was much more satisfying to have an overall idea of where I wanted to go, but to make most of it up as I went along.
Shinsplints
I’d never heard of this painful inflammatory condition, but everyone else knew straight away what it was when I described the symptoms. I had it three or four times during the walk, and each time a couple of days’ rest cured it.
Water
Because I stayed close to major roads for much of the way, water was rarely a problem. Depending on the temperature and the distance between water supplies, I carried between one and eight liters in bottles. These included my two much-derided but very useful lightweight aluminum thermoses, which kept the water cool all day – most motels have ice machines, so I usually put a couple of inches in the top. I used plastic mineral-water bottles for the rest.
If you’re venturing further away from civilization, you may need to bury water supplies along the way beforehand and record their location using GPS. I managed to avoid doing this.
Weight, backpack
Mine weighed about 40lb. It was rarely comfortable, but I got used to it.
Weight loss
I can think of easier ways to shed unwanted inches, but I lost around 15lb.
Only Night Outdoors in Over 300 Miles of Louisiana
After a later departure from Boutte, and walking across the tall, pedestrian unfriendly 310 bridge to the east side of the Mississippi (HUGE milestone), I continued through the dark for miles atop the east bank levee, to St. Rose, where I found a midnight-friendly spot to rest for the night. Here’s the midnight Facebook post I wrote upon arriving last night:
I decided to sneak my way up to the covered, upstairs outdoor entrance platform of the second-floor door of Bread-Life Church, in St. Rose (I think). I believe I’m about 3 miles shy of South Kenner, which I wanted to reach, but I’m unsure if any discreet camping opportunities there will be as good as here. The surrounding, working-class neighborhood feels safe; no dogs are barking at me and calling attention to my presence; I’m next to a main road, yet mostly out of view; I have the height advantage over any animals or people from up here; and if seen, the worst to happen would likely just be that I’d be told to move. I’ll reach NOLA on foot tomorrow, where friendly locals have invited me in for the next week. First night outdoors in Louisiana and lovin’ it
MORNING UPDATE:
I awoke this morning to a bright blur of foggy sunshine. Of course, given the circumstances, I don’t get any “deep sleep” in these scenarios, for my mind always sleeps with one eye open– I hear all surrounding noises, I hear any cars turning and coming my way (which fortunately weren’t many). Funny, given my potential to be very visible on the 14-foot-tall perch of the tiny upstairs door platform, I figured most drivers would simply pass without noticing anything. However, in an otherwise still surroundings, movement ALWAYS attracts the eye–so even though my instincts told me to shift around and look every time a car turned my way, I had to overrule my instincts and stay still– only looking a few seconds after hearing the vehicles. I know that at least one cat spotted me, but unlike barking dogs, kitties aren’t effective at alerting the surrounding world to the presence of a stranger. Though I probably could have slept an extra hour or so, not long after dawn, I arose, packed up, carefully stepped my heavy cart load down the stiff staircase, and walked to the paved path atop the levee, and continued on my way to Nola. I write now from Metarie, halfway into the day’s walk. Nine miles to go to reach tonight’s hosts, friends of Andrew Forsthoefel, the other transcontinental trekker (since meeting, we’ve been sharing some hosts in our opposing directions). Andrew’s friends live in New Orleans’ Uptown/Touro area, and have invited me to many St. Patrick’s Day festivities and fun. If I arrive in time, I’ll get to join them for a parade.
The following pics are of my carefully chosen sleeping spot, as I arose early to finish my haul into NOLA: